Well what can I say it was my youngests 3rd birthday on 6th april and on that day unexpected my fatherinlaw and a relative turned up. It was really nice to see them and the kids to see their grandad. I asked him if when he went to see my husbands kids from his first marriage if he could ask for some pics. My husband has not been in contact with them for a number of years. Not for the want of trying may I add. Anyway after a visit to my mums we returned and I received a phone call from my husbands ex wife and she informed me she would ring me back later about sending some pics. Well she did and we spoke for about an hour about this and that you know small talk. But she informed that she would send pics and could we. After a couple of emails from my husbands daughter to my eldest she said she would love to meet her brothers and my husbands oldest child from a previous relationship. So It was really nice to see how his kids look and how grown up and nice they look learning a bit about them. I hope this is the start of some sort of relationship with us all here. However, we are finding it really hard to trace my husbands daughter everywhere wants money and to be truthfull we just dont have it at the min so if anyone has any ideas please let me know.