Since having kids I can honestly say I have a crap bladder. Its even worse when I actually am pregnant as I am at the moment. I think I should get a tele put in the bathroom or an entertainment system because I seem to spend more time in there than anywhere else in the house. Oh for the days of my youth when I didnt need to go to the loo that often I could go out drinking with mates and last ages without that loo visit. I think the answer maybe carry a kids potty with me at all times in case I get caught short lol. Or get some paddy pads even better. You men have it easy you dont loose that control after having kids. You may loose control of your wallett to pay for everything they need or your nerves because they like to test you to the limits but bladder control will not be in the list of things you loose after having kids. How lucky you all are.